Make Your Own Rules (book: Official Rules and Explanations)

One of my favorite mood-lighteners when I think the universe is out to get me is Paul Dickson’s book, The Official Rules and Explanations, which perversely, affirms that premise. We all know Murphy’s Law: “If anything can go wrong, it will.” But Paul Dickson collected a great many more. For example:

  • If the directions for finding a place include the words, “You can’t miss it,” you will. (Vargas’s Law)
  • If it can break, it will, but only after the warranty expires. (Graditor’s Law)
  • Linear devices, (such as wire, string, etc.) when left to their own devices, occupy time by twisting themselves into tangles and weaving knots. (Bell’s Rule)

22250320[1]Another rule that has proven true for me is, “The other line moves faster.” Barbara Ettore first made this observation in 1974, along with the cautionary note not to even think about changing lines, because if you do, then your original line will move faster.

I was thinking about grocery checkout lines – where I am most subject to the Ettore Rule– because Leigh Anne Jasheway wrote about grocery rules in her most recent ““Don’t Get Mad, Get Funny Newsletter.” She noted that grocery stores have become so supersized in recent years that many of us need our own GPS system just “to make sure no one gets lost in frozen foods for three days and ends up with a bad case of frostbite and the tendency to call everyone Ben or Jerry.”

Leigh-Anne insists she likes grocery stores (because that’s where the food is,) but believes we need some simple rules to make our lives easier. My favorite of her suggestions is:

“The Replacement Rule:  How many times have you picked up an item on Aisle 2 19871792[1](Shampoo, Soaps and Surf boards) and then realized when you’re on Aisle 517 that you already have that item at home?  According to this rule, you are not required to go all the way back to where you found said item. You simply place it in the middle on the floor, then look up at the cameras which have been filming your every move (including when you were readjusting your bra) and point to it. The grocery store will dispatch a drone to retrieve it and return it to its rightful place. Do not, I repeat, do not, attempt to leave one or more of your children behind in this manner. No matter how unruly they are.”

  • What rules of the universe have you noticed?

  • What rules can you invent to make your life easier?

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